About Lauren

About Lauren

Therapist. Former community organizer. Curious human. Relentless believer in your ability to heal.

Before I ever sat across from someone in a therapy room, I was walking alongside communities fighting for survival and justice.

My social work career began with organizing diverse communities across California and the U.S. who were impacted by housing, environmental, and economic injustices. I’ve worked in the trenches of advocacy, policy-making, program administration, and direct service — with people navigating poverty, housing insecurity, HIV, aging, and systems that were never built for them to thrive.

What these stories taught me — and what I still carry — is that healing doesn’t happen in a vacuum.

It happens in relationship. In connection. In reclaiming what was lost or never safe to begin with. 

My Approach

Therapy with me is part mirror, part map.

You already carry the wisdom — therapy simply creates the space to bloom into your real self, rooted in truth, not survival.. I am your guide.
That means slowing down. Listening to the parts of you that protect, perform, or shut down. Making space for the grief, anger, fear, and longing that never had a safe place to land.

In our work, we might explore:

Why you always feel like too much or not enough
How your early relationships shaped how you love (and lose yourself)
What intergenerational patterns you’re holding that aren’t even yours
How to stop abandoning yourself — even in relationships that feel “almost right”
What safety in your own body could feel like — for real this time

I use a mix of approaches that help you understand your inner world, your body’s responses, and how past relationships may still be shaping your life today. My style is warm, down-to-earth, and collaborative. I show up fully — tuned in, thoughtful, and honest — and I’m not afraid to bring a little humor or realness into the room when it’s needed. 

The Lens I Bring

My work is shaped by a deep understanding of the patterns we all carry — the roles we’ve learned in relationships, the emotional habits we fall into, and the ways we’ve been wired (or wounded) to show up in the world. I help you spot those patterns and gently shift the ones that no longer serve you.

I’m someone who’s wired to sense the hidden thread, name the unspoken, and invite change that’s both practical and profound. I’m a natural decoder of emotional dynamics — both the ones in front of us and the ones that live in the nervous system, shaped long ago.

People describe me as:

Compassionate, but direct

Insightful, but grounded

Deep, but never overwhelming

A therapist who gets it — and gets you

A Little More About Me

I’m a mama to two kiddos and a couple of quirky animals (Oscar is our shy pup who thinks he’s a cat). I’m obsessed with flea markets, vintage dresses, and mid-century modern furniture. Give me a nature trail, a good book, and a sunny patch to sit in, and I’m golden.

Above all, I’m a learner. About people. About patterns. About what makes healing real.